Stop Being a Doormat

What is it that is in you tells yourself that you have to put up with abusive and controlling behavior? Usually addicts find someone that helps them continue their addictive ways and they lie to them or abuse them in other ways and the other person lets them. It all begins with you. If you can't change the "it" won't change. Stop blaming the other person for all your troubles and do something different. Read some books on assertiveness, go to a workshop on how to treat yourself better. Change change change and your circumstances will change.